Supporting people with unwanted same-sex attractions and gender confusions

Many people experiencing difficulties in such areas want help in overcoming the feelings. This can be motivated by health concerns, religious beliefs, or simply by preference. Currently these people are being let down and denied access to services except they affirm these unwanted feelings. Many governments are wanting to ban all related counselling or therapy. With the aggressive secular culture that has developed towards anyone who does not want to embrace homosexuality, or transsexual ideology, people are left with nowhere to turn.

The IFTCC Conference 2023

The 9th Annual IFTCC Conference ‘Turning the Tide: Cross-Discipilinary Approaches to Sexuality and Gender’ will be held 27-29th October 2023, in Eastern Poland.  Once again speakers from Europe, the Americas, Asia and Australasia will come together to share the latest research initiatives and best practise. The conference is intended for IFTCC adherents but those who we have not yet met who are  interested in attending can contact us at  ‘Turning the Tide’ indicates our interest in exploring together the growing recognition that banning therapeutic choice, denying the rights of autonomous individuals to decide their own trajectory of sexual identity, and the vilification of those supporting those seeking transformation of behaviours and attractions,  is both unhelpful and damaging.

About IFTCC Learning

IFTCC Learning serves the IFTCC as its public education body. It is led by the IFTCC Education and Training Advisory Council, chaired by Professor Carolyn Pela and managed by Dr Mike Davidson. IFTCC Learning aims to provide:

1. Further training for qualified counsellors and psychotherapists;

2. Specific knowledge, current best-practise and the latest research findings;

3. A structured approach for pastoral careers and other helping disciplines.

About IFTCC Archive

The IFTCC archives mark the beginning of an international repository for resources that were created in the defense of the right to move away from unwanted same-sex attraction or gender confusion. It provides a glimpse into the social and political history of the movement that opposes ‘conversion therapy’ bans.

About an International Journal of Human Sexuality

The editorial board of the Journal of Human Sexuality (JHS) invite contributions from writers, researchers and IFTCC supporters to contribute to this important initiative.

What people say...

"The reason for my transgenderism was the fact that I didn’t feel like a man... doesn’t a person have the right to actually go and seek help to change their orientation if it’s causing them distress? Today it’s good … I feel secure in my masculinity. …. at this point in my life I’m happy being a man for the first time in a long time."


"There are indeed people who are critical of my journey. They don't agree, and they don't believe in change. I, however, respond that my life is more honest now."


"My gay affairs once worked for me like drugs work for an addict. I wanted to compensate my bad feelings …. Today I rather face my bad feelings."


"I wasn’t born with these desires but they grew as a result of bullying and exclusion as a teenager."

David (45)

"I found that people who have decided to live as a homosexual got all the support they needed but the people that decided [to] change their lifestyle had no real help."


"It is ironic that a society that prides itself on individual liberty wants to enforce its values on others."

Mohammed (24 years)

"They provide me tremendous assistance with unwanted same sex attraction and my mental, emotional and psychological health had improved remarkably."

Tzvii (32 years)

"This therapy does not attempt to change an individual from being gay to being straight but rather it helps an individual heal from past hurts and fears."

Callum (41 years)

"I have the right to pursue truth and happiness as I understand it; and that is what this therapy has allowed me to do."


"I find it unacceptable that bigoted, intolerant people are seeking to disallow others their truth and their happiness, by seeking to ban this type of therapy."

Male, 40

"'It is not the case that sexual orientation is immutable or might not vary to some extent in a person’s life.' Position Statement PS02/2014 April 2014"

Royal College of Psychiatrists

"My abuse had occurred at an age of ego formation …. negating my normal sexual evolution as a heterosexual male, to be replaced with a sense of non-being, genderless, neither male nor female. [I] sought in vain to find happiness in gay-affirming society and active gay life over the course of 20 years."

Phil, 60

"I do not identify with gay culture, and I don’t want to engage in gay life any more."

Male, 40

"It’s so unfortunate that it took me so long to get this ... therapy. It’s just exactly what I would have loved to have had in my late teens. It would have been the answer to all my questions."

Denis (38 years)

Bullying & Intimidation

Have you received bullying or intimidation about your desire to leave unwanted behaviours?

People have experienced significant intolerance and aggression when they have chosen to go in new directions, or to leave some LGBT communities. Let us know your experience (in complete confidence).

X-Out-Loud: Emerging Ex-LGBT Voices


X Out Loud book

Buy the book featuring 44 unique stories from 22 countries of men and women leaving LGBT identities. This collection of testimonies proves that change becomes possible when we encounter the risen Saviour.


The UK Heroes film

“The UK Heroes” is a unique collection of seven life stories of men and women leaving LGBT in the UK: Simon, Kiran, Sam, Libby, Christian, Tia, Rob. Their life experience and worldview challenges the status quo and the mainstream narrative on human sexuality and development. These individuals have their own personal goals and dreams in life. Leaving LGBT meant that they can be one step closer to realising their vision for life.

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“The UK Heroes” – Leaving LGBT, Challenging Censorship & Discrimination